If you were alive in the ’90s or ’00s, you couldn’t miss Cameron Diaz in movies. She was everywhere — Being John Malkovich, There’s Something About Mary, and Shrek to name a few. But then, with almost no explanation, she just… disappeared from the big screen. After a few years of silence, Diaz is finally ready to detail the reasons behind her decision.
In an interview with Gwyneth Paltrow for her “In goop Health: The Sessions” series, Diaz had an illuminating conversation about the major events in her life — things that have happened after her last appearance in a movie in 2014.
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“I got a peace in my soul,” Diaz said in the interview. “Because I was finally taking care of myself.” She does seem to have poured herself into many new outlets since played Miss Hannigan in Annie.
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Now, Diaz is married to Benji Madden from Good Charlotte and has Nicole Richie for a sister-in-law — she’s married to Benji’s twin, Joel. Cameron and Madden have a daughter named Raddix. Interestingly enough, Diaz carried the child herself, at 47.
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Diaz is also involved with a wine brand, Avaline, and has published two books, The Body Book and The Longevity Book. When you have endless creativity and money, you can pretty much do whatever you want.
And speaking of endless money, Diaz was definitely in enough big movies to earn it for herself. She started as a model and transitioned into acting. If you went to the movies to see a blockbuster in the 2000s, she was probably in it.
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Some of her biggest roles were The Mask (1994), There’s Something About Mary (1998), and Vanilla Sky (2001). That’s not all; we can’t forget that she also appeared in Being John Malkovich (2000) and Gangs of New York (2003).
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Diaz is a gifted comedian and has impeccable timing, which is apparent in her work. We loved her as Fiona in Shrek. And the ‘hair gel’ scene from There’s Something About Mary was definitely referenced so, so, so much in the 2000s.
Over twenty years, Diaz worked with major directors like Spike Jonze, Martin Scorsese, Cameron Crowe, Ridley Scott, and Nancy Meyers. She was nominated for four Golden Globes and a ton of MTV Movie + TV awards too, making her abrupt stop all the more mysterious.
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Diaz was no slouch. She was still landing roles in major movies, and garnering interest from audiences, but still she retired from the craft. Not getting decent roles is one of the big reasons actors may vanish from the public eye.
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Diaz’s reasons for leaving were larger than that. “I just decided that I wanted different things out of my life. I had gone so hard for so long, working, making films and it’s such a grind,” Diaz said. “I didn’t really make any space for my personal life.”
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When you’re raking in the dough and starring in a bunch of amazing movies, we’re sure it’s difficult to concentrate on anything else. Would you rather practice lines with Jim Carrey or talk to your aunt on the phone?
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This wasn’t the only reason she was ready for a change. Diaz was also uncomfortable with the industry. “When you’re making a movie, it’s a perfect excuse — they own you. You’re there for 12 hours a day for months on end and you have no time for anything else,” she said.
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“Actors are infantilized. We’re put in a position where everything is taken care of for us,” Diaz continued. “You’re responsible for all these multi-million dollar pictures that you have to go out do your press for and market and all these things. It’s like, overwhelming.”
“Your life becomes so narrow. Everyone is doing things for you, and you’re catered around. I never felt really truly comfortable with that,” explained Diaz. She never wanted to be commercialized by her workplace.
She also hated all of the public scrutiny. “There’s a lot of energy coming at you at all times when you’re really visible as an actor and doing press and putting yourself out there,” she said. That led her to a big moment.
“It’s a strange thing to say, I know a lot of people won’t understand it — I know you understand it — but it was so intense to work at that level and be that public and put yourself out there,” she said. ” I stopped and really looked at my life.
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When she retired, she wanted to prove to herself that she was a self-sufficient person. She wanted to “put all the pieces of my life together the way that I wanted it to be put together, not how other people thought it should go.”
Over the years, she hired an entire group of people to manage her career, which leeched into them managing her own life, too. Diaz was focused being a part of Hollywood — an incredibly difficult pursuit — and sacrificed normalcy to obtain it.
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“I had to basically take it back and take responsibility for my own life. That’s my job. There’s a lot of things I had to iron out, a lot of relationships I had to repair, a lot of relationships I had to build that were absent in my life,” Diaz said.
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In her 40s, Diaz knew she wanted to take all the energy she poured into acting and spread it into other areas of her life that she felt were lacking. We wish her, Benji, and Raddix well. And her closest Hollywood pals completely support her decision, including a friend who’s made some tough decisions herself.
Whether you know her from the blockbusters she’s been in or from television commercials — or even her romantic missteps over the years — Drew Barrymore is a household name. Her path to get there was absolutely wild.
Even though the only Barrymore most of us know today is Drew, she actually comes from somewhat of an acting dynasty. Her great-uncle Lionel won an Academy Award for It’s A Wonderful Life. Yea, she had it in her blood.
Drew herself landed her very first gig — a dog food commercial — at the ripe age of 11 months. It wasn’t until 1982 when she was seven, though, that the world knew her name, thanks to her godfather.
Her godfather was none other than legendary Hollywood director Steven Spielberg. Stating she had the “right imagination” for the role of Gertie, he cast her in the major motion picture E.T. the Extra Terrestrial. She came out of the acting gates on fire.
But this was just the beginning of her wild ride. Not long after E.T, she was invited to host Saturday Night Live, and to this day, she still holds the record as the youngest host ever. A few years later, she even ventured into horror films.
The young actress was hailed as the most famous child star of all time, and her next major role was in Firestarter, the horror film based off a Stephen King novel. Unfortunately, problems soon arose off-set.
As with many people swept up into Hollywood, Drew began partying hard. But she wasn’t even 10 years old when she got drunk for the first time! Drugs followed within the next few years.
On a clear path of destructive behavior, you’d think her mother or father would step in to help… except both mom and dad had their own substance issues, which fed into Drew’s behavior.
In fact, her mother seemed to encourage the partying lifestyle in her young daughter, taking her to clubs like Studio 54 and using her daughter’s fame to enhance her own social life. However, it all changed at age 13.
Even though she was the one who was mostly to blame for her drug problems, Drew’s mother also sent Drew to rehab when she was barely a teenager. After a “horrible and dark” 18 months, she checked out with a huge resolution.
Time away helped her realize she needed to completely emancipate herself from her mother if she was to maintain sobriety. At first, Drew was unsure of who to go to. But then a famous musician stepped in to save the day.
It was David Crosby of the hugely successful group Crosby, Stills, and Nash. Once Barrymore got on her feet again under Crosby’s guidance, she did something that, yet again, she currently holds the record for.
At only 14 years old, she cranked out an autobiography. She already had more experiences in 14 years than most people have in a lifetime, and she wanted people to know her story. Unfortunately, Drew’s rebellious stage wasn’t quite over.
Not only did she pose nude at age 16 on the cover of Interview magazine, but she began romantic flings with notorious Hollywood bad boys like Corey Feldman. But, during this time, she also met amazing friends.
One of them was Courtney Love of the band Hole. The two became so close that Drew was actually Love’s daughter’s godmother! Eventually the rebel in her calmed down, and she had the urge to get back onto the screen again.
She got people talking about her again when she starred in the cult horror film Scream. However, she made an interesting decision: Instead of taking the lead role, she opted to get murdered almost immediately.
Back on her feet, she eventually created the film company Flower Films. When the company released Charlie’s Angels in 2000, Barrymore successfully shed her rebellious image to become fun and flirty. Four years later, she was honored in spectacular fashion.
Hollywood gave her a star on the Walk of Fame. It’s one of the highest honors any celebrity can receive, and Barrymore was especially touched because five other members of her family also had stars.
There was a point in Barrymore’s career when people were convinced the “wild child” would never settle down to have a family, but in 2012, she married and had two children, Olive and Frankie.
Barrymore came such a long way from her crazy childhood days. She’s a proud mom, a successful actress still, and an inspiration to women everywhere. Luckily, she wasn’t battling alone. One of her peers had a dark run through Hollywood, too.
Most people who saw this Burger King ad in the early 1980s didn’t realize they were staring right at one of the future’s brightest stars. Of course, they wouldn’t have predicted that she’d vanish so suddenly either.
Born Margaret Hyra, the actress who’d become known as Meg Ryan initially eyed a career in journalism. She studied that field at UConn and NYU until her lucrative part-time job convinced her to seek out a different path.
Meg made a few bucks acting on the side, but her perspective totally shifted when she started booking regular roles. Following a recurring part in the soap opera As the World Turns, she chose to drop out of college with just a semester left.
As the next few years saw Meg bounce around small turns in TV shows, it wasn’t until 1986 that she introduced herself to mainstream audiences. A supporting role in the blockbuster Top Gun suddenly put her in the same echelon as Tom Cruise and Val Kilmer.
In the late 1980s through the ’90s, Meg established herself as queen of the rom-com. She frequently collaborated with Tom Hanks, in classics like Joe vs. the Volcano, Sleepless in Seattle, and You’ve Got Mail. She’s also behind one of the most iconic moments in film.
Movie buffs may ultimately remember Meg best for When Harry Met Sally. Audiences experienced just as much pleasure as Meg pretended to have in the iconic deli scene. She wasn’t just making headlines for her acting work either.
Meg married fellow actor Dennis Quaid in 1991 after they starred in the movies Innerspace and The D.O.A. together. In this new chapter of her life, she started taking more creative risks.
One of these risks, her foray into voice acting, paid off big time. She headlined Fox’s Anastasia, which won over enough moviegoers to break Disney’s stranglehold on animated flicks. However, not all of Meg’s gambled worked out for her.
Meg came under fire as she transitioned from romantic comedies to serious drama. Not even the additional star power of Diane Keaton and Lisa Kudrow could rescue the drudgery of Hanging Up, the tale of three sisters bonding after their father’s death.
With the new millennium arriving, the flops only continued. Meg floundered with Russell Crowe in Proof of Life, though the harsh reviews weren’t even the worst part. Rumors of an affair with Crowe followed her, tainting her personal and professional reputation.
That drama led to Meg’s split with Dennis in 2001. Meanwhile, her forays into strange new genres continued. Erotic thrillers, boxing flicks — it just didn’t pan out. And what was worse was that some projects that could’ve defined her career totally fizzled out.
Years prior, she memorably passed on the lead in Pretty Woman. While Julia Roberts was eternally grateful, that iconic part could’ve kept up Meg’s marketability through her string of flops. Then, there were big roles that never came to pass.
With the behemoth sitcom How I Met Your Mother about to end, CBS planned a spinoff called How I Met Your Dad. Meg provided the future voice of the main character — played by Greta Gerwig — but the network killed the show after a disappointing pilot.
Not long before, critics called Meg Ryan “America’s Sweetheart.” Then, a few years into the 2000s, she could barely get a guest spot. She didn’t have a husband, so she turned to the other man in her life.
Meg had always been close to her son Jack, who made a name for himself with an appearance in The Hunger Games. When she vented about her lack of opportunities, Jack encouraged her to keep taking risks, particularly one she always had on her mind.
After countless hours of being bossed around in front of the camera, Meg wanted to try her hand at directing. Understandably, she felt nervous before making this leap, so she called up an old friend.
She recruited Tom Hanks for 2016’s Ithaca, in which she also starred. Though not all critics adored it, Meg called it one of her most fulfilling experiences. However, behind-the-scenes developments prevented her from hopping back into the director’s chair.
Meg had too much going on in her personal life — especially with a new daughter! After adopting Daisy a few years earlier, the actress needed to set aside extra time as her daughter came of age. Plus, she had a bit of romance to enjoy as well.
You couldn’t call Meg the Cougar in this relationship because she was dating the legendary John Mellencamp! In 2018, they tied the knot and took some time to enjoy each other’s company before delving into their next big projects.
With so much going on, Meg will doubtlessly return to the silver screen once she’s ready. After all, performers often step away from the camera for a variety of reasons; others, though, don’t have a choice.
Throughout the ’90s, if a movie was billed as a comedy, you better believe Jim Carrey’s name was attached in some way. But as he accrued more and more roles, he eventually took a stand that nearly landed him on the sidelines with Meg.
From a young age, Jim Carrey always knew he wanted to be a comedian. With a knack for impressions and physical comedy, it wasn’t long before Jim was doing stand-up at local comedy clubs in the hope of being discovered.
And discovered he was, as legendary comedian Rodney Dangerfield quickly took a shine to the young joker and signed him as a supporting act. With his star on the rise, Jim decided to take his talents to Hollywood to see if he could make it big.
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It wasn’t long before Jim’s popularity as a comedian took off, and by the early 80s, he was making regular appearances on An Evening at the Improv and The Tonight Show. But everything changed when in 1990, Jim became a regular cast member on the sketch comedy show In Living Color.
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Jim and his expressive slapstick style of comedy became a huge hit, and his success on television launched him into starring roles in comedy classics like Ace Ventura: Pet Detective, Dumb & Dumber, and The Mask. But this was only the beginning for young Jim Carrey.
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After reprising his role as Ace Ventura in 1995’s Ace Ventura: When Nature Calls and starring as the Riddler in Batman Forever, Jim’s price tag reached an astonishing $20 million per film. In fact, Jim was so sought after that he even began to score leading-man roles in dramatic films like The Truman Show.
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Around the turn of the century, Jim began to shy away from comedies in favor of films he considered to be more “highbrow”. With his performance in 2004’s Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind receiving critical acclaim, it appeared that the comedian’s acting style was beginning to shift — and people were taking notice.
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During an interview that same year, Jim’s acting pursuits were called into question. Although he attributed his transition from goofy comedian to serious actor to the nature of the roles he was given, there was still no denying that Jim’s slapstick days were now behind him…for better or worse.
The latter proved to become a reality when in 2007, Jim starred in the psychological horror film The Number 23, which was both a critical and commercial disaster. While he’d bounce back a year later with the comedy Yes Man, this marked the first moment of decline in the storied actor’s career.
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Though in the years to come, we saw him star in films like A Christmas Carol, Mr. Popper’s Penguins, and Dumb and Dumber To, Jim’s performances were receiving more and more mixed reviews. Then, in 2013, the floodgate holding Jim’s career in place finally burst.
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Several months prior to the release of the film Kick-Ass 2, Jim took to Twitter to denounce his role in the project. Citing the recent shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School, the actor withdrew his support for what he believed to be an excessively violent film.
“I did Kick-Ass a month before Sandy Hook,” Jim tweeted, “and now in all good conscience, I cannot support that level of violence. My apologies to others involved with the film. I am not ashamed of it, but recent events have caused a change in my heart.”
Though some praised Jim for sticking to his morals, an overwhelming majority — including Kick-Ass creator Mark Millar and some of Jim’s co-stars — openly rebuked his comments. But this wouldn’t be the last time Jim’s mouth would get him into trouble.
In 2015, the comedian once again took to Twitter to share some of his more controversial beliefs. Not only was Jim not a fan of Kick-Ass, but apparently he was anti-vaccination as well.
“California Government says ‘yes’ to poisoning more children with mercury and aluminum in mandatory vaccines,” Jim declared, in reference to a recently passed California law. “This corporate fascist must be stopped.”
Public outrage was immediate, with many pointing out that mercury is no longer used in vaccines and that refusing to vaccinate children poses a serious risk to public health. Though he backtracked his comments in several follow-up tweets, the labeling of Jim as an anti-science nutcase had already begun.
In fact, Time magazine even published an article titled, “Jim Carrey, Please Shut Up About Vaccines”. As one would expect, this kind of bad publicity only made finding work more difficult for the already struggling actor.
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Despite being brought on for an episode of Saturday Night Live, film and television studios seemed to have blacklisted Jim, leaving his 2015 filmography almost completely blank. Things were bad for the former megastar, but what came next was the final nail in his coffin.
Following the suicide of his ex-girlfriend Cathriona White, a lawsuit was brought against Jim by her family and estranged husband. They alleged that Cathriona took her own life using prescription drugs that Jim provided her with just days before her death.
Not only that, but Cathriona’s mother accused Jim of emotionally abusing her daughter, giving her STDs, and using “high-priced Hollywood lawyers” to intimidate her following their breakup. The case is still playing out in court, with Jim fighting desperately to repair his already shattered public image.
In late 2018, Jim made his return to acting in Showtime’s comedy-drama Kidding. While the former Hollywood heavyweight will likely never regain the kind of stardom he achieved early on in his career.
Let’s hope that new opportunities will allow Jim to redeem himself in the eyes of his many fans and admirers. But Carrey certainly isn’t the only celeb to rack up a few tabloid headlines. In fact, Jim seems totally normal after hearing some of these Tom Cruise facts…
1. Over the years, Tom Cruise allegedly allowed Scientology elders to select wives for him to “audition.” High-ranking Scientologists allegedly trotted out a series of women for Cruise to date, including actress Nazanin Boniadi.
2. Tom Cruise adopted two kids, Isabella and Connor, with fellow actor Nicole Kidman and pushed them towards Scientology. They started practicing, but Kidman didn’t, so Scientology labeled her a non-believer. Cruise eventually (allegedly) pressured them to never see her again.
3. In a 2005 interview with Matt Lauer, Tom Cruise railed against prescription drugs, even those used for treating postpartum depression. According to him, depression could be cured with vitamins and exercise. In the same interview, he also rebuked psychiatry, which is a big position for Scientologists.
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4. Over his decades in the spotlight, Tom Cruise was never afraid to hold journalists accountable for lies, rumors, or stuff they just couldn’t really prove. Whenever someone sullied his character, he jumped at the opportunity to sue. A lawsuit might have been preferable for the next guy…
5. Once, when a reporter squirted Tom Cruise with a water gun mid-interview, he lost it. “Why would you do that?” he asked. “Do you like thinking less of people? Is that it?” Cruise then grabbed the reporter’s hand and reprimanded him as he tried to flee.
6. Tom Cruise once melted hearts and made true romantics swoon when he enthusiastically jumped on Oprah Winfrey’s couch during an interview while professing his love for then-wife Katie Holmes. Some rumors suggested the whole thing was staged and not an authentic outburst of emotion.
7. At a wedding many dubbed to be one of the strangest they had ever attended, Tom Cruise serenaded Katie Holmes with the song “You’ve Lost That Lovin’ Feelin’,” which was the tune he once famously sang in Top Gun.
8. It hadn’t even been two weeks after Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes publicly announced they were expecting that photos of Holmes and her baby bump appeared in the tabloids. Rumors swirled that Cruise had Holmes wear a fake belly to quell gossip he was infertile.
9. Thanks to Scientology’s theories, Cruise proposed that his children be born in complete silence. No screaming nor encouragement from nurses was allowed. And so, Suri Cruise entered the world in a room where you could’ve probably heard a pin drop.
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10. An accomplished actress in her own right, Katie Holmes—who became a household name after her role on Dawson’s Creek—seemed to disappear once she married Tom Cruise. Allegedly, he persuaded her to turn down film roles and drop her manager.
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11. While she was married to Tom Cruise, cameras often caught Katie Holmes with her friend, Jessica Feshbach. As it turned out, Feshbach was an established member of Scientology who once was Cruise’s assistant. Many suspected she was hired to keep an eye on his wife.
12. After his divorce from Katie Holmes, Tom Cruise allegedly imposed rules on his ex-wife, such as barring her from talking to the press or dating anyone else for five years. Coincidentally, just over five years later, photos of Holmes with actor Jaime Foxx surfaced.
13. According to actress (and former Scientologist) Leah Remini, Tom Cruise once erupted in a fit of rage because he wanted to make cookies but couldn’t find any cookie dough. Of all Cruise’s faults, this one might be a bit more understandable ’cause, you know, cookies.
14. Leah Remini dished additional Tom Cruise rumors in her Scientology tell-all. Apparently, Cruise once invited her to play hide-and-seek with Will Smith (among others) at his 7,000-square-foot home. She declined, but he “tagged” her and told her she was “it” anyway.
15. Tom Cruise (pictured here as his character from Tropic Thunder) worked tirelessly to recruit other Hollywood stars to Scientology. Allegedly, he tried bringing Jennifer Lopez, Alec Baldwin, and Margot Robbie into his world of thetans and dianetics.
16. Another ex-Scientologist, Nick Lister, said that Tom Cruise once spotted his 14-year-old niece kissing a boy. Thinking it was unbecoming of her, Cruise exiled the teenager from future family events.
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17. According to ex-Scientologist Amy Scobee (pictured), Tom Cruise employed a gaggle of Scientologist minions to keep his former Los Angeles home up and running. He “had to hire an executive housekeeper, a maid, a cook, who all had to be Scientologists.”
18. Over the years, the leader of Scientology, David Miscavige, has been a target for several sinister allegations, including one about his wife who hadn’t been seen publicly since about 2007. Miscavige’s best bud? None other than Tom Cruise.
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19. On the big screen, Tom Cruise has thwarted plenty of evil villains and dastardly foes, but even movie magic hasn’t captured his real-world destiny. As one of Scientology’s leading members, some have alleged he believes he’ll lead humanity in a fight against aliens.
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20. Tom Cruise once starred in a video where he spoke of Scientology in a way that not even the most loving mother would speak of her child. The strangest part? He did so as the Mission: Impossible music played softly in the background…